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Tips for Making Friends from Actual Camp Folks

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Making friends at camp starts with little moments—saying hi, sharing a game, writing a quick note, bringing a small thing to share. These camper, parent, and counselor-tested tips make breaking the ice easy (and fun!).


Making Friends

Introverts aren't antisocial—we just connect differently. Start with one or two close friends: say hello, ask about favorites (food, color, season), and keep trying. Failures lead to success.

Sarah chatting with campers about making friends

Sarah W.Camp Staff MemberBay Shore Camp10 Years

Stay Connected

Bring a pen and small notebook to collect friends' contact info before you leave.

Jezabel L.Camp Staff MemberCamp Foss6 Years

Bring Friends Along

If a bestie can't go, invite a sibling or another friend—give them a "day in the life" preview to get them excited.

Kate with a friend at camp, encouraging bringing someone along

Kate W.CamperYMCA Camp Arbutus Hayo-Went-Ha4 Years

Sending Packages

Pre-drop packages at the office with delivery dates. Include sharables—glow sticks, silly sunglasses, a small game—to spark cabin bonding (day two is perfect!).

Package with camp goodies ready to deliver

Kathy F.Parent of a CamperCamp Takodah3 Years

Comforts of Home

Pack a few favorite snacks to share, a short stack of books, and an MP3 player. Shared comforts = easy conversation starters.

Debra P.Parent of a CamperIndependent Lake Camp2 Years

Bracelet Making Kits

Friendship-bracelet string + small box of colors = instant hangout and skill building during free time.

Julie B.Parent of a CamperCamp Wise3 Years

Sharing Eye Shadows

A colorful eye-shadow palette + Q-tips (for hygiene) makes you the go-to stylist on dress-up and color-war days.

Julie B.Parent of a CamperCamp Wise3 Years

Mad Libs

Rainy-day magic: a big book of MAD LIBS so the whole cabin can play together.

Lily O.CamperCamp Rim Rock for Girls5 Years

Friendships

Feeling homesick? Write a list of the new friends you've made—it's a quick mood lift.

Kristin V.Parent of a CamperCamp Mondamin3 Years

Get Everybody In On The Fun

Bring cabin-wide goodies (glow sticks for glow night, etc.). Shared moments = fast friendships.

Madison E.Camp Staff MemberKickapoo Kamp for Girls5 Years

Making Friends

Be open, ask questions, find common interests, and invite new friends to sign up for activities together. Keep saying hi—soon you're just… friends.

Sara Y.Camp Staff MemberKamp Kickapoo10 Years


Bottom line: friendship at camp grows from small, brave moves—sharing, asking, inviting. Bring something to bond over, be curious, and keep saying hello. The best part of camp is the people you meet.